Don't you hate it when they are right

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Last night before bed I was unsuccessfully trying to monivate PJ, my fiance,  by showing him a wedding countdown checklist on the internet.  I should say that  PJ does  have a good amount of interest in the wedding, he goes to meetings, volunteers opinions and makes suggestions. However, I am the one who has reached the level of 'frenzy' when it comes to wedding planning. I check weddingbee, the knot and Esty websites daily. We are a good balance of him keeping me sane while I feel I am a good dose of "get your ass moving and mail your invitations" for him.

So last night I was looking at a 'to do'checklist and PJ casually says to me "you shouldn't read that before bed, it will only stress you out and you won't be able to sleep". He then rolled over and was sleeping soundly within about 7 seconds, as per usual.

Well, sure enough, I had my first wedding related dream last night. I tossed and turned with images of reception decor gone wrong,  venue triple bookings and a snowboard hill in the reception, which would be cool but in my dream was a logistical nightmare.

Most of the wedding planning has gone fairly smoothly so far, and I like to think I have been casual  and easygoing with decisions. However, there is only two months left before the big day so I hope I can maintain my cool in the home stretch, or at least learn to not check "the list" right before bed.